Wednesday, 19 August 2015

Love Will Happen When It's Meant To Happen!

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So many of us fall into the trap of NEEDING someone... by needing someone you're putting the keys to your happiness into someone else's hands and they will only break it into a million pieces over and over again. Those are your keys and your responsibility and you should WANT to share your life with someone not need and that sharing of your life and kind of love will happen when it's meant to happen!

Being single is better than being in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect, genuinely care or isn't right for you, you have to determine your worth because it isn't someone else's job to validate or to make you happy while that may play it's part in a relationship it shouldn't be the definition or soul purpose of one.

Know your worth, love yourself and know that love will happen when it's meant to happen.

With love
Rainbow :) xoxo

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  1. This is good to know. I'm forever alone lol so this post was reassuring haha xxx

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    1. Haha it will make it that much more special when it happens! Have a lovely day Izzy! :)

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  2. This is such a lovely and inspiring post! It's always important to know that you are your own person and you can't lose your independance by relying on another person!

    Lots of love,
    Marshmallow Skye
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    1. Yes, yes and more yes! Have a gorgeous day! :)

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  3. I love what you say ! Know your worth and yourself love first. A lot of women I see always feel like they need to have someone to complete them when it will happen naturally :-) great post love your picture also.http://bauchlefashion.com

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    1. Thank you Heather! Have a wonderful day! :)

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  4. I love your posts dear! This one is amazing too!! Love is so important thing in our life ♥♥ I think the most important ♥ and I agree with you when its time - its always comming :)))

    Have a wonderful day dear ♥♥♥
    so much LOVE to you and to everybody !!!
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    1. Thank you Joanna! Have a gorgeous day! :)

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  5. So true. I hate when people think they need to be in with someone to feel good. If you are not happy with yourself you will never truly be happy. I think some people need to spend some time alone and really think about there self worth :) Great photo btw :D

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    1. Amen to that! Have a beautiful day Kelsey and Kenecha! :)

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  6. Yes I agree.
    Self love is enough <3
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    1. Thank you! Have an amazing day Alyssa! :)

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  7. Truer words were never spoken! It's definitely the will of the world that love will happen when it's meant to and when you are ready for it! I know so many people who jump from relationship to relationship with the same problems because they don't love themselves! Great post Rainbow! I hope you are having a wonderful week my gorgeous, sweet friend! XO -Kim
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    1. It's interesting how many of us struggle with things like that and it all comes back down to self love. Thank you Kim! Hope you're having a wonderful week too! :)

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  8. Great post! Hope you have a lovely day.

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    1. Thank you! Hope you have a lovely day too! :)

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  9. I love the title of this post ♡ I agree with you! I think the quote: " It`s better to be single than wish to be single" is so true.

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    1. Oooo I really like that quote! Thank you, have a beautiful day! :)

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  10. I really love your blog. I get so inspired whenever I'm down and you just stop me from seeing the dark clouds ^__^

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    1. Naww big hugs and I'm seriously so glad I can help! Have a beautiful day Linnie! :)

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  11. Hey I love your hair color! Very attractive! Have a nice day, dear! I've just published a review of Inflatable Water Park . Have a look!

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  12. Yuppers. One of my best life lessons was learning that it's more lonely to be in the wrong relationship than it is to be single. Great tights ;) XO
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    1. Amen sister! Why thank you! ;) Have a beautiful day Lauren! <3

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  13. omg.......i just loved your outfit....you look so funky and so care free.....loved it....

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  14. I totally get this! The amount of people who run into the arms of anyone is worrying- it can often be more lonely to be with someone who doesn't love you than being single <3

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    1. I whole heartily agree, it's really sad when you think about it. Have a magical day Vicky! <3

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    2. Thank you- hope you have a wonderful day also! x

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  15. agree! I'm so lucky to have someone who respects me, and care for me more than I care for myself. But that doesn't mean I will lose my responsibility for myself.

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    1. Amen to that sister! Have a gorgeous day Kandice! <3

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  16. Thanks for the uplift this perfectly sums up the situation I've been dealing with lately
    You're beautiful Xxx

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    1. Naww big hugs Winnie, always know that you deserve nothing but the absolute best! Thank you so much, you are beautiful too Winnie! <3

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  17. This is so true! I've waited till I found someone who truly cares about me and respects me, and now I'm the luckiest girl on earth :)

    Sarah x
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    1. Naww this makes me smile so much!!! Have a lovely day Sarah! :)

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  18. You speak a lot of sense Rainbow - lovely post yet again! x x

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    1. Thank you so much! Have a magical day Leah and Rachel! :)

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  19. It's so true! It's when you stop looking and learn to love yourself - will love come to you! I know it sounds so cliche - but it's true :) xx

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  20. Amazing message and thank you for sharing. Self love is important to feel good in your own elements than having someone there. I guess that finding a good stable relationship is to really work together to have that decent regular happiness than perfect. I agree that being single you have more control than having responsibility and the freedom. You look amazing, rainbows are awesome and live life

    Take care

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    1. Naww thank you so much! Have a beautiful day Analyn! :)

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  21. Totally agree with your words,Rainbow,I think that it's better to be alone than in toxic relationship :) In my opinion, nowadays, so many people are with somebody, not because it's the other half of them or they're in love with those persons,but only because they think that they need them and what's more they always have somebody with they can go out somewhere. But personally I find it as a bad resolution.

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    1. I totally agree Ivonne, I think sometimes we have to go through it to come to that realisation that we need to find our worth and self respect. Have a gorgeous day Ivonne! :)

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  22. That's a very great thought, It's definitely better to be alone than to be in a toxic relationship, wait for for the right person to come along that loves and appreciates you, although I hope it doesn't take too long to happen lol.
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    1. Totally agree! Thank you and have a wonderful day! :)

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  23. Always love your images and positive quotes!! Happy Friday, Rainbow! :)

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  24. *Puts Laptop down, Stands up, and Claps so loud that people come into my room asking what's wrong with me* YES!!!!! I always stress this to all of my friends! Whenever I get asked by anyone as to why I haven't had a boyfriend. I always say that it's because I'm not in a rush. I'm in no hurry to find someone, I love myself and I respect myself and I don't need to go looking for someone to give me what I already have. When it's time it will happen. I love love but I'm also not going to go out and give in to anyone who will give me the idea of what love is. When it does happen I want to feel love, not just see it happening. I don't think that you should hand out your feelings to people just because you feel like you need some to (like you said) make you happy. Meeting someone who loves you just as much as you love them is so much more meaningful when it happens naturally because you want it to and not because you feel like you need it. Seriously great post Rainbow <3 I hope you have a lovely day x

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    1. I love that you think like this too, it's so easy to get wrapped up in needing someone, especially when you're young and everyone seems to be dating or in relationships. I totally agree very few people are actually worthy of having you and you shouldn't just give your feelings to anyone. Amen and it's going to be something so so beautiful when it does happen with that right person! Naww thank you once again Crystal! You have a lovely day too! <3

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  25. Such an inspirational post! I'm glad I'm single, it's really better than worrying about the other half! Besides I feel I'm too young, and I should be enjoying life xD

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    1. Amen to that! Have a gorgeous day Sarah! :)

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