Wednesday, 13 January 2016

Helping Yourself!


We all struggle and fall down in life however no one else can truly help you if you don't help yourself, you and only you can make the decisions and take the actions needed to get back up, to get through the struggles and to move forward.

Sometimes you might have to make a few mistakes and go around in circles before you realise it is your life, your responsibility and what you actually need to do to help yourself. Others can be there to help and support you but you first and foremost must help yourself if you really want to make it through!

With magic from me to you
Rainbow :) xoxo

31 comments:

  1. Thank you so much for writing this post, I needed it. I've been dwelling on my anxiety a lot and I'm realising that I just need to face it and start helping myself.

    Carolyn x
    Carolyn’s Simple Life

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    1. Thank you for reading! You've got this Carolyn! <3

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  2. Hello Rainbow, can't agree with you more :) If we don't have to help ourself, no one can to do this. It's really important to remember about this when we have worse day/ period in life, we have to focus on moving one and give ourselves some time to make it through. Btw, Rainbow, I love your top <3

    http://crafty-zone.blogspot.com/

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    1. So very very true, I like what you said about giving ourselves time, that is really important! Thank you Ivonne! <3

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  3. It's so important to understand that until you're ready and willing to help yourself that nobody else can really help you ,not until you're ready to get better.People can help you make the decision to help yourself and support you through the pain but you are in control of you :)

    lots of love, Marianne xxx

    http://myhappybubblexx.blogspot.co.uk/

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  4. I totally read this whole thing in your amazing accent! I seriously love your blog and you fill me with so much inspiration you have no idea xxx

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    1. Hahahaha crack up! XD Naww thanks girl! <3

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  5. Yes! I agree, you are the only one to rely on in order to help yourself out of a rut. Although it's great to have friends and family for support- as long as you love yourself you can get through anything :)

    Lindsey Elyse | lindseyginge

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  6. I completely agree with this! Your posts are always so motivating, I love it! Also, you are rocking those tights! They look great x

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  7. Support is very important and necessary, but I learned also that no decision for us to take, and no one will perform the steps. We must decide for themselves, we must go, even if wandering along the way, it is important to go, do not stand still.
    Thank you for supporting your words just like that work.
    Much love and joy darling
    Kisses

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  8. I believe if we just stick to things we'll achieve everything. You look amazing in this picture. Have a great day.

    LEJA

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    1. Thank you, hope you have a great day too Leja! <3

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  9. Great post! I agree that you're the one who has the power to make everything better.

    xo
    http://thepinkporcelaindoll.blogspot.it

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  10. I ALWAYS remind myself and tell others that nothing can help more than self help. It's amazing when we have people who love us and care about us but no one can snap you out of something better than yourself :) Super amazing reminder, sweetheart! <3
    xox Nadia
    http://www.mielandmint.com/

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    1. Thank you so much Nadia and you said it so right! <3

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  11. Yes, agreed! So many people want things just to fall into their lap or want everyone else to solve their problems. I love your point of view Rainbow! Everything starts with us and the sooner we realize it the sooner we can help ourselves. You continue to inspire me all the time! Love you girl! XO -Kim

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    1. Naww thank you so very much Kim, love you too! <3

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  12. I agree with you. I always remember the quote from Charles Bukowski ''No one can save you but yourself and you are worth saving.'' :)

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  13. Have a great evening, my dear Rainbow :)

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    1. Thank you so much Ivonne, I hope you have a great evening too! <3

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  14. Great advice, Rainbow! XOXOX
    Lauren-Blair
    www.prefertobedemure.com

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  15. Real talk! So many times I've left things only to find that I need to help myself to overcome the situation!

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    Sarah
    sarahinks.co.uk

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