Monday, 27 June 2016

Failure Is Part Of The Process, It Is Your Success

Failure is part of the process, you fall, you get back up, you get knocked down and you stand up tall once more.

Failure is part of your success, your knowledge, wisdom and soul will grow more from falling than it ever will from flying so don't let that fall be your wall instead make it your door.

Failure is part of the process, without failing you will never appreciate true success, it is your teacher, your mentor and you will know exactly what you have fought for and that will be the greatest gift of all.

Failure is part of your success so the next time you're bawling your eyes out on the floor know it's not your flaw, it's essential to the game and that's what creates your hall of fame.

Failure is part of the process, it is your success!

With magic from me to you
Rainbow :) xoxo

Wednesday, 22 June 2016

Forgiving Yourself!

Sometimes one of the hardest things to do is to be able to forgive yourself but by not dealing with it, it finds a little patch inside your soul and slowly eats away at it if it hasn't already spread like wild fire. By holding on to your pain, running away, tucking it away, numbing it out it will eventually destroy every fibre of your soul and life and then some.  

We are all humans who make mistakes no one is perfect and well sometimes we believe in untrue beliefs and we blame and utterly hate ourselves for things that were out our control and truthfully wasn't our fault. At times we don't even know how to forgive ourselves, just like letting go is a process so is forgiving ourselves, it takes acknowledgement, openness, breaking down untrue beliefs, a lot of time, work and healing.

Truthfully I struggle with forgiveness in any form partly because I don't like what it stands for in it's traditional sense "typical me ;)" and also that in a traditional sense it feels like forgiveness should be instant?!?!... That doesn't work for me just as I'm sure it doesn't for many others. A few things that have helped me in the process of forgiving myself over the years are:
  • Writing a letter to myself as a child
  • Standing in a mirror butt naked telling myself "I deeply and completely love, forgive and accept myself"
  • Gala Darling's 100 Ways You Can Start Loving Yourself Right Now She totally gave me the ideas for the 2 above ;) QUEEN I TELL YOU!
  • Good old therapy (Coming from a girl who hated therapy ha!) It might take a few people to find someone who really can and does help you!
If you are in need to forgive yourself here's a reminder to start the process because after all you are worth it! <3

With magic from me to you
Rainbow :) xoxo

Monday, 20 June 2016

We All Have Pain

Life will throw us all pain and hardship at some point in our lives if not several times over the course of our lives... no one is exempt. No ones pain is less than, we all feel it and experience it in many different experiences, tragedies, levels and ways so please know that you are never alone in your pain and that your pain does matter. While knowing that won't take the pain way it can help us all to speak up, get help and have compassion, empathy, awareness and love for each other which can be healing within it's self.

With magic from me to you
Rainbow :) xoxo